Achieve your goals with ease

 To achieve your set goals with ease, you need to build up the ACHIEVER'S MENTALITY

The Achiever's Mentality

1.       The dreamer’s mentality: Dream dreams and dream big

2.       The relying on God mentality: it is not by power nor by might but by my spirit says the lord. Pray, listen to the voice of God and follow it. The bible says in Prov. 3:5 – 6 trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not unto your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him  and he shall direct your path.

3.       The “I can” mentality.: (Phil 4:13) Learn not to create excuses, avoid them. The first thing that must come to your mind is, ‘I can’ before the analysis of how you can. So people act as though God hasn’t given them the ability. The instruction was given to you because He knows you can. He understands you more than you understand yourself. He made you, don’t forget.

4.       The “Never quitting” mentality: When you create excuses, you quit when you haven’t even started and when you don’t start, you can’t win. On the other hand, when you start and quit when you are almost winning, you can’t win. “Quitters never win & winners never quit”. Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well but is not worth doing shouldn’t even be attempted for no reason. It is determination that terminates all failures. Determinate means, DON’T TERMINATE – DON’T QUIT.

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Eva G

“Misunderstanding strengthens relationships” How true?

“Misunderstanding strengthens relationships” How true?

Misunderstanding is simply the misinterpretation of the thoughts of someone.

Misunderstanding is a compulsory thing in a relationship / friendship and the reason people see it as though it strengthens relationship is that, it exposes you to your partner. You’ll begin to see things from your partner’s point of view after series of misunderstanding. You’ll begin to know how he /she think. On the other hand, misunderstanding can terminate a relationship.

Misunderstanding must not necessarily cause a fight.

What do you do then?

Communication is the key. One cannot delve into the thoughts of another to know what he/she is thinking.

1.            Have the habit of asking questions to know the reason behind your partner’s action and don’t be too quick to saying to yourself - “Why will he/she do this? I’m going to do that.” Instead, direct the question to him/her “Why did you do this” with a cheerful attitude and in a polite manner. Get an explanation before acting and when you couldn’t get the explanation, don’t assume. Make sure you are cleared before taking any further action.

2.            Be patient: don’t be too quick to giving meaning to the actions /words of your partner.

3.            Be slow to speak or act

4.            Learn to admit your wrong actions and say sorry: When you finally act thinking you got your partner right and it happens to be wrong, admit it and apologize.

5.            Learn to keep your body under. Don’t always act base on how you feel.

6.            To both parties, learn to make your partner’s business your business and never use statements like “What is your business? Or Is it your business?” it’s your partners business if you are one. Let love reign in your relationship.

7.            Above all use the word of God to build you up.

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Be the best of you everyday

Future is not far away. Tomorrow is the future of today therefore, make your life better everyday, out do your past. When you hope for a bright future and there is no action to back it up, you’ll never get there. Have this knowing that your tomorrow is going to be better. Increase in knowledge makes you better. Therefore if you want your tomorrow to be better than today, invest in yourself, study more.  Your life will not improve without increasing your knowledge.

Don’t waste your day else you will be extending your victories. What you would have known today to make tomorrow better, if you wait till tomorrow to know it, then you would have wasted your today. Make every second of your life count.